Today was so Ahamzing so very special, The pic on top is the woman i met today at work. she was so outstanding.
She brought me to tears with joy love hope and so very much more. she is so.... just wow i could go on about her. i asked her to write her name and she wrote it down for me. a little about her, shes Italian, shes lost recently lost 95lbs! (we high fived! lol) and shes recently single/widowed and has kids. she is also my new friend, and is a force of life and love!
today at work, i was going to put some pool stuff up in the front, then, i was stopped by a woman by the name of Theresa. She asked me if i would help her find a big bag of trail mix. i told her yes and told her to follow me. followed me she did, with her shopping cart and Kleenex in her hands. I found one but it was too small she asked if i could find another one bigger? i said yes and went on my way to find one.
I couldn't find one when i returned to tell her that she said it was alright and okay, but thank you for paying attention to me, for having Patience and so much more for me. I just wanted to give her a big hug and tuck her into bed! (the first one i told this story to was my boyfriend Angel) she said she was going through so much she had recently lost her husband. Can you believe that loosing your best friend? she told me they were together for 65years! wow! i was so ahmazed at that. and so happy i almost cried.
She told me she had took care of him when he got sick and mention to her kids (they are adults now) about her just taking a day off and maybe them taking him for a day out or her and she said they never did they never helped her in anyway. could you believe that? it broke my heart that her own kids would do that to her. she told me she never asked them that was her best friend and she wasn't going to leave him. she loved him and that's how it was going to be.
(now, through this whole convo we are just standing there talking at the snacks like if we knew each other forever i love that. i love to listen to people its something that makes me very happy.)
So as she told me that and she also told me she never had a break and never did anything for her self. she is a real woman. That Theresa, she said when he died she gave the ring to her daughter and his stuff to his family. she told me that when i asked if that was the wedding Ring he had given her and she said no. she said she Had to move on at sometime in her life she will always love him no matter what but she has to have fun and do things, he would want that. she said she has a gym in her home and so much room shes going to workout and do all that. i told her to come visit me in the toy section and she said she would i hope so i had so much fun talking to her.
I went back to work but i couldn't help but wonder what would she do? if she would come back? i wanted to take her picture but when i turned she was gone she had asked "where was the shaving cream?" i told her at the pharmacy and then i looked all over but could not find her. shes fantastic, that woman.
As always... I love talking to people i love them to know I'm listening to them. i hope one day i will have this love, its the best love.
It reminded me of my boyfriend Angel and I we always say forever and so much more. hes truly special that's why he was the first person i wanted to tell he loves, love as much as i do. we both aren't perfect but hes as perfect for me as i am to him i love him so much.
